SummaryWhat if every memory that haunts you could be erased? What if something truly horrific had happened to you and the person who loves you most could wipe that from your mind? Would you want them to? This is the ethical dilemma that 18-year-old Marcus Lewis faced when his identical twin Alex awakened after a motorcycle accident and Marcus was the on... Read More
Directed By:Ed Perkins
Tell Me Who I Am
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Generally Favorable
69
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Metascore
Generally Favorable
82% Positive
9 Reviews
9 Reviews
18% Mixed
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Oct 16, 2019
100
Marked by evolving degrees of miraculous vivacity, dread, despair, and ultimately hope, Tell Me Who I Am reflects a fraternal relationship equally encumbered by truth and lies but strengthened by love and an unflinching revelation in real time. It is utterly staggering.
Oct 17, 2019
80
This remarkable true story is a finely crafted exercise in slow-building suspense, though it works better as a gripping mood piece than as journalistic investigation, its raw confessional style slightly compromised by niggling narrative gaps and dramatic contrivances.
User score
Generally Favorable
73% Positive
16 Ratings
16 Ratings
14% Mixed
3 Ratings
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Mar 4, 2021
10
Absolutely heart wrenching and real, it’s one of my favorite documentaries because of how touching the brothers stories are, it’s loving and gut wrenching at the same time.
Oct 24, 2019
75
It’s hard to imagine a more crystalline look at the suppleness of someone’s self-identity (and the moral dilemma of someone else choosing to overwrite it) than Ed Perkins’ Tell Me Who I Am, a documentary so harrowing and horrific that it can only bear to scratch at the surface of its remarkable story.
Oct 18, 2019
75
Their tangible shared pain quickly turns an awkward performativeness into a most genuine therapy session, one that is both disarming and uplifting to observe.
Oct 17, 2019
70
In its most rewardingly complicated moments, this absorbing, incomplete documentary reminds us that there is nothing definitive about what we think we know.
Oct 17, 2019
70
Their moment of resolution at the end is very moving, but the movie also testifies that while love and forgiveness can ameliorate suffering, it can’t really wipe it all away.
Oct 18, 2019
40
In the documentary, the director appears to be interviewing the twins separately, but he’s really just filming them as they recite their own story. They’ve chosen their words carefully; they cry on cue; and they share just enough, while holding back an enormous amount of information.
Nov 24, 2019
10
I cried and it was a very great narrative throughout. If you have not seen it, highly suggested.
Oct 26, 2019
10
I don’t think I’ve ever watched something so heart breaking in my life. I said to my partner 15 mins into ‘oh, turn this off babe, sounds **** (not reading any description) I’ve only cried at ‘my sisters keeper’ and this... this, I don’t even know.. the twin who knows everything says he’s a coward for not telling him the truth. You are nothing of the sort my friend, you are amazing people who can make change! Sending lots of love
Jan 5, 2021
6
An interesting story to be told here, but does come across as a bit of a cut and paste therapy session which is a shame.
Dec 22, 2019
3
This is SUCH a frustrating doc. The two subjects are horribly repetitive. The majority of the film is them rewording and rephrasing the same core sentiments. There's maybe 15 minutes of information in the 90 minute run time. It's all filler, tears on cue, and cliches about memory.
