SummaryTwo couples must sift through the layers of betrayal and self-deception to face their marriages, each other, and ultimately, themselves. (Warner Independent Pictures)
Directed By:John Curran
Written By:Andre Dubus, Larry Gross
We Don't Live Here Anymore
Metascore
Generally Favorable
66
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Mixed or Average
5.9
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Metascore
Generally Favorable
62% Positive
23 Reviews
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38% Mixed
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100
The film is at times harrowing to watch, yet it's also wry and delicate and absorbing. It's infused with the messy excitement of imperfect passion.
80
The movie may leave its audience feeling a little battered (some might say betrayed) as well. Still, the film's honesty, along with its refusal to pander to Hollywood happy endings, is well worth the beating.
75
A movie for adults, of a kind that usually isn't made in America,
70
Affecting and sincere in the best sense, which makes up for the whiff of anachronism and the creakiness of some of the big metaphoric moments.
60
Though the violence in this film never becomes physical, the psychic wounds these people inflict on one another cut so deeply you wish it would. It's a grueling experience.
50
You get the sense that the cheap thrill of cheating is like putting a Band-Aid on a broken bone. The movie feels just as inadequate emotionally and psychologically. There's a lot of outward behavior but no inner life.
40
May be very much about feelings, but it's made with a drab, juiceless, tasteful efficiency that distances us from the characters instead of drawing us closer to them.
User score
Mixed or Average
31% Positive
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2 Ratings
2 Ratings
Jan 1, 2011
1
Good cast but weak and dull storyline ,felt like a terrible waste of talent and effort to make such a pointless movie.Wish I hadn't wasted my time watching it.
Production Company:
- Front Street Pictures
- Front Street Productions
- Renaissance Films
Release Date:Aug 13, 2004
Duration:1 h 41 m
Rating:R
Tagline:Ordinary lives. Extraordinary emotions.
Awards
Sundance Film Festival
• 1 Win & 2 Nominations
Boston Society of Film Critics Awards
• 1 Win & 1 Nomination
Film Independent Spirit Awards
• 1 Nomination
































